Understanding Leadership Through the Eyes of a 17-Year-Old

I didn’t learn this lesson in a classroom or from a leadership book. I saw it at a funeral. My 17-year-old nephew passed away, and like most, I walked in expecting grief, sadness, and closure. What I didn’t expect was a demonstration of connection and leadership from a group of teenagers. After the service ended and the adults began to leave, the 17-year-olds stayed. They stayed while the dirt was placed, while the grave was finished, and while the workers packed up. When everyone else was gone, they stayed. They sat together, holding hands in silence for over an hour. It was the same the night before at the funeral home. They did not want to leave. But they stayed because they were connected to something bigger than themselves. In that moment, I realized we may be completely misunderstanding this generation.

In the fire service, we often describe Gen Z as disengaged, distracted, or lacking commitment. What I witnessed challenged that narrative. Research continues to show that Gen Z prioritizes purpose, connection, and impact over traditional motivators like salary or benefits. They are not avoiding hard work. They are avoiding work that lacks meaning. They are a generation raised in a digitally connected world but often deprived of real-world community. Because of that, they crave belonging in a way that is deeper and more immediate than generations before them. Two consistent themes show up in the data. A lack of purpose. A lack of community. Both drive dissatisfaction. If that is true, we need to ask hard questions. Are we providing either of those in the firehouse?

We pride ourselves on calling the fire service a brotherhood. A family. Something bigger than ourselves. Yet when a probationary firefighter walks through the door, we often do the opposite of what we claim to value. We isolate them. We tell them to earn their place before they can belong. We assign them tasks like coffee, dishes, and chores. Those have their place. But let’s be clear. Chores are not empowerment. They are responsibilities. They are not leadership. Somewhere along the line, we convinced ourselves that withholding connection builds toughness. What it often builds is disconnection. We are excellent at enforcing standards. We are not always intentional about creating purpose.

Every action in this job carries weight. How a firefighter pulls a line matters. How they force a door matters. How they interact with the public matters. Lives are influenced by small decisions. But are we telling them that? Are we giving them the why behind the expectation? Or are we just correcting performance without connecting it to purpose? When a firefighter only hears what they are doing wrong and never hears why it matters, engagement fades. The issue is not always capability. It is clarity and connection.

What those 17-year-olds showed me is simple. Connection does not require rank, time, or permission. It requires intentional leadership. They stayed because they felt responsible to each other. They stayed because they were part of something meaningful. That is the environment we claim to have in the fire service. Too often, we delay that experience for our newest members.We take individuals who are searching for belonging and place them into a system that withholds it. Sometimes for 12 to 18 months. Then we question why they struggle to engage.

This is not a call to lower standards or eliminate probation. Standards matter. Training matters. Accountability matters. Leadership also requires evolution. We must find a balance between discipline and connection. Between earning your place and understanding your purpose. We can demand excellence while still building inclusion. We can train hard while still reinforcing meaning. Most importantly, we can ensure that from day one, every firefighter understands that what they do matters. Not someday. Not after probation. Immediately.

We often say the next generation needs to adapt to the fire service. That may be true. Leadership demands a harder question. Are we adapting enough to lead them? If a group of 17-year-olds can demonstrate a level of connection that surpasses what we claim as a brotherhood, then maybe the issue is not their willingness to belong. Maybe it is our willingness to bring them in.

The Engine Company Doorman

As we know each position on the engine company is an integral role to the success or failure of the job at hand. Each role is unique and plays an important part in the grand scheme. Like chess each firefighter is just as important as the other and how they're utilized is most important. In this case, it's the Door Man. A role that isn't spoken about much and like many departments today, is often times combined with the roles of back-up firefighter due to staffing limitations yet the responsibilities are crucial and play large parts during fires.
Here are some quick tips for the door man.

1. Back-up the hydrant firefighter. Ensure the cross-lay is emptied from the bed or assist with the static lay connection.
2. Know your hose estimates. Should the static lay be used, estimate the amount needed before connecting to the engine (better to go more than not enough)
3. If there is a back-up firefighter, assist in flaking out the line from the front to the back-up firefighter.
4. Prevent kinks in line. Choke doors as the line goes through.
5. Eyes on the structure. Monitor fire conditions at the doorway(s) and/or stairwell(s) and report any deteriorating conditions.
6. Next man up. Should the nozzle firefighter need to be relived, it's your job to step up.

There it is, quick tips for an often overlooked position on the fire ground however a role that plays dividends to the success of the fire suppression team.

Until next time; work hard, stay say & live inspired. 

About the Author

NICHOLAS J. HIGGINS is a firefighter with 17 years in the fire service in Piscataway, NJ, a NJ State certified level 2 fire instructor, a State of New Jersey Advocate for the National Fallen Firefighter’s Foundation and is the founder/contributor of the Firehouse Tribune website. A martial arts practitioner and former collegiate athlete in baseball, Nick is also a National Exercise & Sports Trainer Association Battle Ropes Instructor, Functional Fitness Instructor and Nutrition Coach. He holds a B.S. in Accounting from Kean University, and a A.A.S in Liberal Arts - Business from Middlesex County College. Nick has spoken at the 2017 & 2018 Firehouse Expo in Nashville, TN as well as at numerous fire departments within NJ and fire service podcasts.

Re-Present Yourself to Represent Your Department

From the time we enter the academy to the time we are sworn in as firefighters, we are training to become a better version of ourselves. Even after we graduate and begin our time as a firefighter we are still training each and every day to improve ourselves to become a better version of ourselves but what about the department and community we serve? They say the name on the helmet represents the department and the name on the jacket represents who raised you. Well, what if the name on the helmet and the name on the jacket are not only being represented by you but your “re-presenting” those names through you? 

Think about that for a minute. The 2 names on your uniform are being “re-presenting” through you. The town, the communities and other agencies know the department on the helmet and may quiet possibly know the name on the jacket but it’s how the names are carried and “re-presented” that makes the difference. It’s easy to put the uniform on and go to work but it’s another thing to put the uniform on and go to work with humility, honor and respect. Ask yourself these questions when you’re “re-presenting” the names because this is how you are “re-presenting” your department and your name to others.

1. Am I respectful to my boss and my crew?

2. Am I humble?

3. Do I respect the job?

4. How do I want these names to be “re-presented” to my fellow firefighters and the community?

5. Am I training hard each and every day to improve myself mentality and physically?

6. Would I be able to lead myself?

Being a firefighter and wearing the uniform isn’t a right, it’s a privilege. A privilege many people wish they had and a privilege that can be taken away at any moment. Be conscious of how you act and speak when wearing any part of that uniform on and off duty, it’s showing how you present yourself and also how you are “re-presenting” the names on that uniform. So do a service to your department, the community you sworn to protect, your fellow firefighters who ride alongside you, your family and most importantly yourself and “re-present” them the way you would want someone to “re-present” you. 

Until next time; work hard, stay safe & live inspired.

About the Author

NICHOLAS J. HIGGINS is a firefighter with 17 years in the fire service in Piscataway, NJ, a NJ State certified level 2 fire instructor, a State of New Jersey Advocate for the National Fallen Firefighter’s Foundation and is the founder/contributor of the Firehouse Tribune website. A martial arts practitioner and former collegiate athlete in baseball, Nick is also a National Exercise & Sports Trainer Association Battle Ropes Instructor, Functional Fitness Instructor and Nutrition Coach.  He holds a B.S. in Accounting from Kean University, and a A.A.S in Liberal Arts - Business from Middlesex County College. Nick has spoken at the 2017 & 2018 Firehouse Expo in Nashville, TN as well as at numerous fire departments within NJ and fire service podcasts.

 

When It Rains...

It's just another day at work. More things to do than time in the day. I'm at the fire station, making my way up the stairs to fit in what I can. Up the stairs, I make my way down the walk way and take the second left. I open the office door just to drop off my coffee cup. Training is about to happen and I don’t want to be late. I don’t turn on the light, at first. But what is that sound? It reminds me of running water? That doesn’t make sense. There is no water in the office.

I turn on the light and oh my, what a sight!One of the ceiling tiles looks more like a cloud instead of a part of the ceiling. It was full of water and beginning to rain down on the entire office. The air condition system is located in the ceiling, just above the office. I have heard stories of how it leaked before. I now have my own story.

As a new officer, I'm still working through the gut reaction to be in the thick of the problem. To get directly involved on fixing the problem hands-on. On this day, however, I activate a skill that have cultivated for years.A skill perfect for this situation. That skill?Ignorance.I understand what to do with a busted hose line. I understand what to do for a spill for muriatic acid. I know nothing about what to do for a leaky ceiling. I knew enough to know, however, that there was a problem. Even officers know water is not supposed to come from the ceiling. Sizing up the situation, I knew I need more resources. Downstairsare 2-3 firefighters who would know exactly what to do. I went downstairs and hustled back with a strike team of people to handle with the problem.

What did I do? I took two steps back and supported the plumbing strike team while they worked. I handed them a wrench when asked. I held the ladder when needed. I called the maintenance person for the long-term fix. As things are windingdown, the Battalion Chief stopped by. Chief’s seem to either have a 6th sense or hidden camera that tell them when to stop by the station."Where's the guy in charge?"All fingers point to me in the corner coordinating with the HAVAC vendor on when they can fix the problem.

Sometimes being in charge means letting the right people use their skill. Especially when you don't have that skill. I have learned something long ago that I have just managed to put into words. I don't have to be the smartest person in the room in order to lead the room. Let the ordinary people have the extraordinary impact.

 About the Author

NICK BASKERVILLE has had the honor of serving in the United States Air Force for 10 years, followed by 4 years in the United States Air Force Reserves. He attained the rank of Technical Sergeant (E-6). Nick also has 16 years of fire service time, with 13 years of that being in a career department in Northern Virginia. Nick has had the opportunity to hold positions in the Company Officer's section of the Virginia Fire Chief's Association (VFCA), The Virginia Fire Officer's Academy (VFOA) staff, and in the International Association of Black Professional Fire Fighters (IABPFF) as a chapter president, a Health and Wellness committee member, and one of the IABPFF representatives to the Fire Service Occupational Cancer Alliance.